{"id":31043,"date":"2023-05-25T10:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-05-25T10:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/one.sightlinemg.com\/federaltimes\/uncategorized\/2023\/05\/25\/rules-still-punish-military-widows-for-remarrying-by-slashing-benefits\/"},"modified":"2026-08-08T15:28:51","modified_gmt":"2026-08-08T15:28:51","slug":"rules-still-punish-military-widows-for-remarrying-by-slashing-benefits","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/one.sightlinemg.com\/federaltimes\/management\/pay-benefits\/2023\/05\/25\/rules-still-punish-military-widows-for-remarrying-by-slashing-benefits\/","title":{"rendered":"Rules still punish military widows for remarrying by slashing benefits"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For Rebecca Morrison Mullaney, falling in love again after the death of her Army husband Ian is costing about $42,000 a year.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That\u2019s because existing federal rules<a href=\"https:\/\/www.militarytimes.com\/pay-benefits\/mil-money\/2021\/04\/23\/advocates-renew-push-to-end-the-militarys-remarriage-penalty-for-spouses-of-fallen-troops\/\" target=\"_blank\"> cut off military benefits to military widows and widowers<\/a> who get remarried before age 55. Living unmarried with a new partner doesn\u2019t carry the same penalty. Morrison Mullaney said forcing <a href=\"https:\/\/www.militarytimes.com\/spouse\/\" target=\"_blank\">individuals like her<\/a> to stay in relationship limbo to keep getting their family\u2019s deserved support is a cruel twist on an already difficult situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI love being married &#8230;. It\u2019s a beautiful and special thing,\u201d Morrison Mullaney told the Military Times. \u201cI didn\u2019t want my first marriage to end, and I was open to having that again after Ian\u2019s death.\u201d She feels like she\u2019s being punished for finding a new partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cIt just pisses me off that the rules are stifling a whole generation of people that have already been through hell and given so much.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Veterans advocates are again trying this year to change those rules, using <a href=\"https:\/\/www.militarytimes.com\/news\/your-military\/2022\/05\/27\/honor-the-fallen-memorial-day-2022\/\" target=\"_blank\">Memorial Day tributes<\/a> to fallen service members to remind the public that family members left behind need help too.<\/p>\n\n\n\t<aside class=\"smg-interstitial-link wp-block-smg-interstitial-link\">\n\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/one.sightlinemg.com\/militarytimes\/veterans\/2016\/05\/14\/for-military-widows-the-law-protecting-their-benefits-discourages-finding-love-again\/\" class=\"smg-interstitial-link__inner\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"smg-interstitial-link__media\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" src=\"https:\/\/one.sightlinemg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/635987443969473323-heather1jpg-rotated.jpg?w=300\" class=\"smg-interstitial-link__image wp-post-image\" alt=\"\" \/>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"smg-interstitial-link__content\">\n\t\t\t\t<span class=\"smg-interstitial-link__kicker\">Related<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"smg-interstitial-link__title\">For military widows, the law protecting their benefits discourages finding love again<\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"smg-interstitial-link__excerpt\">Federal rules cut off survivor benefits for those who remarry after a military spouse&#039;s death.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t<\/aside>\n\t\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These widows and widowers \u201cshould not have to choose between another chance at love and financial security,\u201d said Ashlynne Haycock-Lohmann, deputy director of government affairs at the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.taps.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors<\/a>. \u201cThey are still the surviving spouse of a fallen service member or veteran, who earned these benefits through their service and sacrifice.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Legislation recently introduced to address the issue has been dubbed the Love Lives On Act, and has already received bipartisan, bicameral support. The move could impact up to 65,000 military families across the country. It would allow surviving spouses of deceased service members to keep their Dependency and Indemnity Compensation, education benefits, military health care coverage, commissary access and more even if they remarry before age 55.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bill sponsor Sen. Jerry Moran, R-Kansas, told Military Times that \u201ca surviving spouse who is able to find someone to love again after the loss of their husband or wife on active duty or as a result of their military service should not have to choose between getting married again or retaining their earned survivors benefits.\u201d Fellow sponsor Sen. Raphael Warnock, D-Ga., in a statement called the move a way to \u201chonor our service members\u2019 sacrifice.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Morrison Mullaney was 24 when her husband Ian died by suicide. He was an Apache helicopter pilot who deployed to Iraq in 2012. She said he never recovered from the mental health wounds of that time in a combat zone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">After years of her own mental health struggles following that loss, she met Brennan Mullaney (who also served in the Army) and began a new relationship. Along with the struggles of reconciling her feelings towards her lost spouse and new boyfriend, Morrison Mullaney said she had to confront the fact that getting married again would potentially wreck her finances.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The couple said they hold annual celebrations of Ian\u2019s life and work through ongoing grief over his death as part of their relationship. Their son, Harrison Samuel, shares the same middle name of Ian. He remains part of their family even today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2732\" height=\"2160\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Rebecca2.jpg.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-107866\" srcset=\"https:\/\/one.sightlinemg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Rebecca2.jpg.jpg 2732w, https:\/\/one.sightlinemg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Rebecca2.jpg.jpg?resize=300,237 300w, https:\/\/one.sightlinemg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Rebecca2.jpg.jpg?resize=768,607 768w, https:\/\/one.sightlinemg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Rebecca2.jpg.jpg?resize=1024,810 1024w, https:\/\/one.sightlinemg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Rebecca2.jpg.jpg?resize=1536,1214 1536w, https:\/\/one.sightlinemg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Rebecca2.jpg.jpg?resize=2048,1619 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2732px) 100vw, 2732px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Rebecca Morrison Mullaney, her husband Brennan and son Harrison Samuel have spent months on Capitol Hill advocating for lawmakers to end the penalty on military survivor benefits for spouses who remarry. (Courtesy of Virginia Gates Photography)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But his military benefits do not. After the pair were married in 2017, thousands of dollars of monthly benefits checks stopped abruptly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThat was money already earned by him, but now I\u2019ve lost that,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Morrison Mullaney is among a small group of widows who have worked with TAPS in recent years to advocate for the changes on Capitol Hill. Group leaders said only about 5% of surviving military spouses under the age of 55 get remarried because of the financial penalties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There has been no public opposition campaign against the Love Lives On Act, but plans to change the remarriage rules have repeatedly failed to pass Congress in recent years because of the costs. Congressional estimates put the cost of the move at $2.7 billion over 10 years.<\/p>\n\n\n\t<aside class=\"smg-interstitial-link wp-block-smg-interstitial-link\">\n\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/one.sightlinemg.com\/militarytimes\/veterans\/2023\/05\/22\/veterans-online-memorial-project-adds-300k-names-ahead-of-memorial-day\/\" class=\"smg-interstitial-link__inner\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"smg-interstitial-link__media\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/one.sightlinemg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/AP23130622158062.jpg.jpg?w=300\" class=\"smg-interstitial-link__image wp-post-image\" alt=\"\" \/>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"smg-interstitial-link__content\">\n\t\t\t\t<span class=\"smg-interstitial-link__kicker\">Related<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"smg-interstitial-link__title\">Veterans online registry adds 300K more names ahead of Memorial Day<\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"smg-interstitial-link__excerpt\">Nearly 5 million veterans and service members are now included in the online listing.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t<\/aside>\n\t\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">House rules mandate offsets for any new spending, although supporters of the remarriage bill insist the costs associated with ending the remarriage rules are little more than an accounting trick. They argue the so-called new spending is actually money already owed to those families.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Haycock-Lohmann said she is optimistic lawmakers can get around those pitfalls this session. But the congressional schedule is already crowded for the remainder of the year, with ongoing work on the federal budget and annual defense authorization bill pushed back into the summer by the ongoing debt limit crisis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Morrison Mullaney said while her family is stable financially now, she wants to see the changes made to take more pressure and anxiety off of future military widows and widowers. She has spent multiple days already this year visiting lawmakers\u2019 offices, letting Harrison crawl around the floors of congressional offices while she pitches the importance of changes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI think by being here, it helps put a face on what this means,\u201d she said. \u201cThese aren\u2019t just statistics. These are families.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><i>Veterans in need of emergency counseling can reach the Veterans Crisis line by dialing 988 or 1-800-273-8255 and selecting option 1 after connecting to reach a VA staffer. 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